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Day 04 of 07

A wardrobe for the week you actually have

Most wardrobes are built for a life the owner does not live. Today you count your real week and match your clothes to it, which usually means owning less.

Course
Style for your body and the week you live in
Minutes
45

Action

Count the week you have, not the one you imagine

Write down the last fourteen days, one line each, with what you actually did and what you wore. Office, site visit, working from home, gym, dinner out, football, nothing at all.

Then total the days by setting. Most men discover that one setting covers more than half their days and that their spending is concentrated somewhere else entirely: four suits for six formal occasions a year and eleven identical worn out t-shirts for the two hundred days at a desk. This count is the brief that everything in the rest of the course answers.

Claim

Dress codes are brackets, not uniforms

A dress code tells you a range and nothing more. Business casual, smart casual and black tie are all brackets, and inside each one there is room for what suits you.

The useful way to read a code is to work out what it is excluding. Business casual excludes a tie and excludes jeans with rips. Smart casual excludes a suit and excludes athletic wear. Black tie is the only one that is genuinely prescriptive, and it is prescriptive because it is a costume with rules, which is why it is easier than the others rather than harder.

Claim

Aim for combinations, not outfits

The mistake is buying complete outfits. The alternative is a small set of pieces that share your base neutrals from day 3, so that most tops go with most bottoms and every shoe works with both.

A workable target for one setting is around five bottoms, eight tops, two pairs of shoes and one jacket, all in your base. That produces dozens of complete combinations, none of which require thought in the morning, and it costs less than the four unrelated outfits it replaces. Then you can afford one or two things that are purely for pleasure and go with only one other item, because the system underneath is doing the work.

Evidence

Why one repeated silhouette reads as style

Look at men whose clothes you notice as considered rather than expensive and you will usually find repetition: roughly the same shape most days, in a narrow color range, with small variations.

The reason is that an observer reads consistency as intention. A man in a different silhouette every day is being dressed by whatever he bought most recently. A man in the same silhouette is making a statement about himself that a stranger can decode in two seconds. This is also the practical argument: a narrow range means each item gets more wear, which justifies buying fewer and better, which is day 5.

Action

Cut the dead third

Take everything out of your wardrobe and separate it into three piles: worn in the last three months, not worn but fits the week you just counted, and neither.

The third pile is the dead third and most men have one. Do not agonise over it. Anything wrong from day 1 that is not worth altering goes, and anything for a life you do not live goes, including the suit for the job you left in 2019. Give it away rather than storing it, because a full wardrobe of unworn clothes is what makes you believe you have nothing to wear.

Caution

Do not empty the wardrobe and then go shopping

The failure mode of a clear out is a spree, where a man throws out twenty items and replaces them in one afternoon with twenty new ones he has not tested against anything.

Leave a gap of at least two weeks. Live with the smaller wardrobe and write down what you actually reached for and could not find. That list is short, specific and correct, and it is a much better shopping list than anything you can write on the day you cleared the shelves. Buy against the list, one item at a time.

Aside

The argument against systems like this

Reducing clothes to a combinatorial problem is efficient and it can be joyless. Some men genuinely like clothes, enjoy an odd jacket that goes with nothing, and get real pleasure out of variety. Telling them to wear one silhouette in three neutrals is telling them to stop enjoying the thing.

So hold the system loosely. The base exists so that getting dressed on an ordinary Tuesday costs nothing, which is what frees up room for the piece you bought because you liked it. If you find yourself owning nothing you feel anything about, the system has eaten the point of it, and the correction is to keep one shelf entirely outside the rules.

Log the last fourteen days by setting and what you wore, then sort your whole wardrobe into worn, fits-the-week, and dead.

Total the days per setting and write the proportions down. Bag the dead third and get it out of the house. Then wait two weeks before buying anything, keeping a list of what you reached for and did not have.

40 min

Day 04 — reading your progress.